Does Your Life Fit You?
Hello Dear Ones!
It may have been awhile since you started following my blog, signed up for my mailing list or to get more info on Coaching, Aromatherapy, Essential oils and more…
Well, I have finally moved to my own space and feel I’m starting to get a handle on the what Alternative Pathfinders (and I) are meant to be.
It’s amazing how we look to others to help us define who we are, try to fit into their vision, or let ourselves be “should” upon by our ego voice even when our inner-voice, quietly saying, “You’re so much more. You know who you are. You are here for a reason.”, and so on. We try to ‘fit in’ with the crowd but, often that ‘fit’ feels like that pair of pants we love, but, are just a little too short, long or snug so they make us just a bit uncomfortable (or maybe very uncomfortable). Others may say they look good, but, our thoughts keeps saying, “I wish they were just a little longer, shorter, bigger.” as we squirm, tug or pull at them, trying not to let others notice. We smile to let them think we are A-Okay.
This discomfort is telling us there is something more in store for us. This does not mean that my having my space within Luminosity Wellness Center or Deep Breath Ahhh was not a wonderful experience, I needed these steps to help me define where I wanted to go and who I wanted to become, then chart the next part of my journey with what had been revealed to me. Every part of our journey can be tools we use to help us define who we are. When you look at your life, notice how it feels. If it feels comfortable, keep it. If it just needs some adjustments, make them. If it really doesn’t fit at all, perhaps it’s time to let it go.
Are you comfortable in your life? Do you need to make a few adjustments to get the perfect fit? Are you allowing others to define it for you? You have the potential to design a life you would love to live. You can start by beginning to think about and define what you would like your life to look like 3 years from now. How do you want your health to look like? How about your relationships? How about your job or creative expression? How about your time, money or freedom? Think outside the box, even if you don’t think it’s possible. You have more potential than you can imagine. As a spiritual being having a human experience, you are bigger than any circumstance or condition. When we start to envision ourselves in a higher vibration, we activate the Universal Laws that help us achieve our goals.
“A vision is not just a picture of what could be; it is an appeal to our better selves, a call to become something more.”
Rosabeth Moss Kanter